Saturday, November 1, 2008

A GUEST BLOGGER

Dear Friends,

My apologies for the many weeks since my last blog. Work related items have kept me very busy. I have been paying close attention to all that is going on with the election, however, and I am worried. While all the "polls" tell me to relax and all signs point to a lovely Election Day for Democrats - I am still worried.

I have invited an author I know to share this space. He has written a piece for JBooks.com which I believe is extremely important. I have added back a paragraph that was deleted from the JBooks.com site, so you are reading it as written.

As Election Day quickly approaches, I will provide my own thoughts. Enjoy.

Thanks for Reading,

Kathy B.


Jews and Blacks: Getting Out the Vote By Richard Michelson

"It was a beautiful Jewish neighborhood"—until the black residents moved in… –A Jewish voter explaining why he would not vote for Obama, quoted in
The New York Times

When Reverend Martin Luther King left Selma, Alabama, and headed toward Montgomery to protest the literacy tests, violence, and economic pressures that were used to keep blacks from registering to vote, he was stopped by police with dogs and clubs. “Decent people know that prejudice is wrong,” he’d said at that time, “but many are too frightened to speak out.” King put out a call for help. “We cannot walk alone, and we cannot turn back.”


Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel was one of the first to answer that call. Many in the Jewish community establishment condemned him. “Don’t we have enough problems of our own? ” they asked. But Heschel remembered his own mother and sisters and friends murdered in Poland. No one had come to their aid. “How can we love our neighbors if we abandon them in their time of need?” is how Heschel answered his critics, and then he and King prayed together and joined hands, as 3,000 people stood behind them cheering. The Reverend took a step forward, and as he kept pace, Heschel announced: “I feel like my legs are praying.”


When I was born in 1953, my area of East New York, Brooklyn, was 90-percent Jewish. A short 12 years later, while King and Heschel were sharing an historic and stirring moment, symbolizing the coming together of race and religion, less than 10 percent of those living in the neighborhood were Jews. And by the time my Dad was shot on Pitkin Avenue during a robbery attempt, he was just one more Jewish exploiter to the black man who killed him.


Had I been there, at the scene of the crime, I might have tried to explain how Jews had been prevalent in every facet of the Civil Rights Movement. They were instrumental in the founding of the NAACP and the SNCC. Jewish civil rights workers were killed alongside black workers in Mississippi in 1964. Jewish lawyers were instrumental in fighting civil liberty abuses during the 1960’s. Every Passover, Jews still command their children to remember their ancestor’s enslavement. Black slaves drew hope from the ancient Israelites journey out of Egypt. Harriet Tubman became known as the Moses of her people and their journey North on the Underground Railroad was often likened to our Exodus.


Had I been there, I might have mentioned that the Jewish flight to the suburbs was only partly a natural evolution toward backyards and lawns. Power always pits the outsider against the outsider, and there was an orchestrated attempt by those with money, to benefit financially. Some bankers and Realtors saw a chance to get rich quick. If they could scare the Jews into leaving en masse, they could buy the abandoned apartment buildings at rock bottom prices. Young blacks were paid to walk through the neighborhood and start fights, or to drive through slowly with music blasting. It is easy to create panic in the populace. Capitalizing on “fear of the other” is the one subject politicians and speculators quickly master. Property values plummeted. Landlords bought cheap and apartments were left in disrepair while blacks moved in and rents were raised.


I grew up confused about race. My Dad owned a small hardware store. Since the neighborhood always needed fixing, he did a good business. My job was smashing the trash cans he sold, so they didn’t look new and shiny. “Otherwise the schvartzes will steal them,” he'd say. But the great majority of his customers were polite, churchgoing Negroes. My Dad loved to joke with his regulars. In the days before political correctness, this often consisted of ethnic jokes. He made fun of their people and they made fun of his people. Then everyone laughed. I grew up comfortable with racial stereotyping, yet thinking blacks and Jews were best friends with a common economic enemy.

But as I grew older, I also understood the racial tensions, the anger steeping on both sides. It is easy for Jews to feel unappreciated after all we have contributed to the Civil Right movement. We assume common interests as victimized outsiders and cannot understand the reluctance of black leaders to unequivocally condemn anti-Semitism.

Many blacks, however, feel patronized, or envious of Jewish upward mobility, which is made easier by the color of our skin. In America today, Jews are often fighting for causes, while blacks struggle for survival.

The poor, young, underprivileged black man who grabbed my father’s briefcase ended up with a half-eaten gefilte-fish sandwich wrapped up in the day’s New York Times. He was probably furious. Where was the money?

The local community, of course, ended up having to pay higher prices and traveling to a black-owned hardware store in Bed-Sty. The Jews who had abandoned East New York, insisting it was a beautiful Jewish neighborhood until the blacks moved in, would have called my father foolish for not following their lead, even though economic necessity, not high-mindedness, was the reason he remained.

I have spent many of my adult years writing books for young children that attempt to address and heal society’s racial wounds; though as likely I am trying to heal the rift within myself. I think of the healing process, and recall that by the time King and Heschel arrived in Montgomery, four days after they left Selma, 25,000 people of all colors and religions had joined their march in pursuit of a common goal.

Today I imagine Heschel and King celebrating a country in which Barack Obama can win overwhelmingly white states. I think they might even celebrate a country where Reverend Wright can speak his mind in public and Jews can say out loud: It was a beautiful neighborhood until… Maybe to get to the next step, we must first air our dirty laundry in public. But if we do so, I would hope blacks remember the words of Martin Luther King: “I solemnly pledge to uphold the fair name of Jews. Not only because we need their friendship, and surely we do, but mainly because bigotry in any form is an affront to us all.”And let me remind my fellow Jews of the words of Abraham Joshua Heschel, “One hundred years ago, the emancipation was proclaimed. It is time for the white man to strive for self-emancipation, to set himself free of bigotry.” Let us not be manipulated by those who would turn us against each other. Whoever you chose to vote for in November, make certain you are voting from conviction, not from fear.

Richard Michelson's most recent books are "As Good As Anybody: Martin Luther King and Abraham Joshua Heschel's Amazing March Toward Freedom," and "A is for Abraham: A Jewish Family Alphabet." His website is www.RichardMichelson.com.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

OHMYGOD!

October 12, 2008

No really…Oh MY God! Yesterday at a McCain rally in Iowa, Rev. Arnold Conrad delivered an invocation prior to the candidate’s arrival that contained the following paragraphs (from the LA Times):


“I would also pray Lord that your reputation is involved in all that happens between now and November, because there are millions of people around this world praying to their God -- whether it's Hindu, Buddha, Allah -- that his [McCain’s] opponent wins for a variety of reasons.


And Lord I pray that you would guard your own reputation, because they’re going to think that their god is bigger than you, if that happens. So I pray that you would step forward and honor your own name in all that happens between now and Election Day.”


Apparently, non-Christians are only praying for Barack Obama to do well in the upcoming election. Or is it that only non-Christians are praying for Barack Obama to do well in the upcoming election? Are no Christians praying for Barack Obama to do well in the election? Since Barack Obama is a Christian, I find it hard to believe that there are no Christians praying for him. And what about the Jews? I am a Jew and I can tell you I am praying like hell for Barack Obama to do well in the election.


Where exactly is this minister getting his information? Does God have self-esteem issues? Does God care whether Hindus and Buddhists think their gods are bigger than Him*? Personally, I don’t think so. The God I pray to really does not worry about such things as guarding Her* reputation.


I also feel a need to point out to the reverend that the Muslim God is his [the reverend’s] God and my God. Our God is known in some circles as the Abrahamic God. The Abrahamic God is shared by the Jewish, Christian and Islam religions. So in fact, we are all praying to the same God – The Source of the Universe, Yahweh, Allah, Elohim – these are just some of the many names of God.


In addition, Hindu and Buddha are not gods at all. Hindus and Buddhists worship many gods. How and in what form they worship their gods is something of which I have little knowledge. However, it seems to me that before making a public prayer like this one, Reverend Conrad would be sure to check his facts before making broad generalizations.


I do apologize for bursting the reverend’s – or any of my dear reader’s – bubbles here, but I do believe God has much bigger and more important issues to be dealing with than the election of the President of the United States of America. This is truly something we the people should be able to handle all by ourselves. Isn’t that what free will is all about after all?


Thanks for reading,

Kathy B.


*Because the God I believe in does not have a corporal body, I use the personal pronouns He/She, His/Hers and Him/Her interchangeably when referring to God.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

DECISIONS...DECISIONS

October 7, 2008

“The only thing in the middle of the road are yellow lines and dead armadillos” ~ Jim Hightower

Geez, I turn my attention away for a few days to celebrate a couple of birthdays and look what happens…the entire country falls apart! I have been monitoring the country’s economic woes very closely. My hope had been that the House would have held firm and not voted the $70 Billion bill into being. I believe we should have watched Wall Street fall and find out what it is like to depend on each other again, however, more on this later.

I will admit I missed the Vice Presidential Debate. I was in an airplane while it was happening and have not had the courage to watch it on Youtube.com. The few news clips I have seen have provided me with all the information I need. Sarah Palin did not disappoint—more on this also later.

Tonight, I have to write about the second Presidential Debate which I just finished watching. I do not wish to comment about who was the winner or loser. If you are voting for Obama, he was the obvious winner. If for McCain, you probably think he won.

No, this blog has to remark on the follow-up commentary with the “Undecided/Independent” Voter Panel after the debate during which the people interviewed still were unable to indicate a preference for either candidate. The election is 28 days away. These individuals had a front row seat to the Second Presidential Debate. AND THEY STILL DON”T KNOW WHO TO VOTE FOR! Come on people, what is the dilemma here?

We are not talking about the difference between Hillary and Obama – two individuals who really were very close in their ideology. We are talking about Night and Day, Rich and Poor, Black and White, Left and Right, Up and Down, High and Low kinds of differences. How can anyone STILL NOT KNOW WHO TO VOTE FOR?

Is there not enough information out there for you? Each of the candidates has a well-written, highly organized web site where you can read about their policy positions on everything from Health Care to Religion. The daily newspaper provides detailed information about what each campaign is busy currently feeding to the American People along with opinion pieces about what it all means. Radio and television news is up-to-the-minute as is the internet. Add to that the plethora of magazines with feature stories screaming for you to pick them up and read them. And have you walked into your local bookstore lately? It appears publishers have quickly released tomes with all the latest facts about Sarah Palin, Barack Obama et al…

What could possibly be left that leaves a person undecided? The following two items came to me via e-mail – your typical “Oh, not another one!” message. However, these were both quite interesting and caused me to stop and think. So much so, that I decided to include them in my blog. Perhaps they will help a few “Undecideds” out therebecome a little clearer. Here’s the first one:


CONFUSED

I'm a little confused. Let me see if I have this straight.....

* If you grow up in Hawaii, raised by your grandparents,
you're 'exotic, different.'

* Grow up in Alaska eating moose burgers, it's a
quintessential American story.

____

· If your name is Barack you're a radical,
unpatriotic Muslim.

* Name your kids Willow, Trig and Track, you're a
maverick.
_____
* Graduate from Harvard law School and you are unstable.

* Attend 5 different small colleges before graduating,
you're well grounded.

_____

· If you spend 3 years as a brilliant community
organizer, become the first black President of the Harvard
Law Review, create a voter registration drive that registers
150,000 new voters, spend 12 years as a Constitutional Law
professor, spend 8 years as a State Senator representing a
district with over 750,000 people, become chairman of the
state Senate's Health and Human Services committee,
spend 4 years in the United States Senate representing a
state of 13 million people while sponsoring 131 bills
and serving on the Foreign Affairs, Environment and Public
Works and Veteran's Affairs committees, you don't
have any real leadership experience.

* If your total resume is: local weather girl, 4 years
on the city council and 6 years as the mayor of a town with
less than 7,000 people, 20 months as the governor of a state
with only 650,000 people, then you're qualified to
become the country's second highest ranking executive.
_____

* If you have been married to the same woman for 19 years
while raising 2 beautiful daughters, all within Protestant
churches, you're not a real Christian.

* If you cheated on your first wife with a rich heiress,
and left your disfigured wife and married the heiress the
next month, you're a Christian.
_____

* If you teach responsible, age appropriate sex
education, including the proper use of birth control, you
are eroding the fiber of society.

* If , while governor, you staunchly advocate abstinence
only, with no other option in sex education in your
state's school system while your unwed teen daughter
ends up pregnant , you're very responsible.
_____

· If your wife is a Harvard graduate lawyer who gave up a
position in a prestigious law firm to work for the
betterment of her inner city community, then gave that up to
raise a family, your family's values don't represent
America's.

* If you're husband is nicknamed 'First
Dude', with at least one DWI conviction and no college
education, who didn't register to vote until age 25 and
once was a member of a group that advocated the secession of
Alaska from the USA, your family is extremely admirable.
______
OK, much clearer now.

And here’s the second one…

“How Racism Works”

What if John McCain were a former president of the Harvard Law Review?
What if Barack Obama finished fifth from the bottom of his graduating class?


What if McCain were still married to the first woman he said "I do" to?
What if Obama were the candidate who left his first wife after she no longer measured up to his standards?


What if Michelle Obama were a wife who not only became addicted to pain killers, but acquired them illegally through her charitable organization?
What if Cindy McCain graduated from Harvard?


What if Obama were a member of the Keating-5?
What if McCain were a charismatic, eloquent speaker?


If these questions reflected reality, do you really believe the election numbers would be as close as they are?

This is what racism does. It covers up, rationalizes and minimizes positive qualities in one candidate and emphasizes negative qualities in another when there is a color difference.

You are The Boss... which team would you hire?

With America facing historic debt, 2 wars, stumbling health care, a weakened dollar, all-time high prison population, mortgage crises, bank foreclosures, etc.

Educational Background:

Obama:
Columbia University - B.A. Political Science with a Specialization in International Relations.
Harvard - Juris Doctor (J.D.) Magna Cum Laude

Biden:
University of Delaware - B.A. in History and B.A. in Political Science.
Syracuse University College of Law - Juris Doctor (J.D.)

vs.

McCain:
United States Naval Academy - Class rank: 894 of 899

Palin:
Hawaii Pacific University - 1 semester
North Idaho College - 2 semesters - general study
University of Idaho - 2 semesters - journalism
Matanuska-Susitna College - 1 semester
University of Idaho - 3 semesters - B.A. in Journalism

Now, which team are you going to hire?

PS: What if Barack Obama had an unwed, pregnant teenage daughter....

I do not want to believe that “Undecided” voters are hesitant to make their decision because one candidate is white and the other candidate is black. I do not want to believe that Hillary did not win the primary election because she is a woman, either. Nevertheless, there are times when the elephant standing in the middle of the living room must be recognized. We are days away from electing the next President of the United States and there are people WHO STILL DO NOT KNOW WHO TO VOTE FOR? We are in the midst of the greatest economic crisis of our generation and there are people WHO STILL DO NOT KNOW WHO TO VOTE FOR? Surely, in looking at these two candidates you can see the clear divisions between the two men. I encourage you to get educated and make a decision. Today.

Thanks for Reading,

Kathy B.

Thursday, September 25, 2008

SIGN HERE PLEASE

September 25, 2008

A public-opinion poll is no substitute for thought. Warren Buffett

If you have some free time on your hands, you might want to spend it signing your name to any one of these petitions that has come through my inbox in the past week.

Have the Debate! Petitions:

http://act.credoaction.com/campaign/economic_debate/?r_by=-1856252-WSvNpLx&rc=paste

http://pol.moveon.org/demanddebate/?r_by=14040-10308157-MOiDILx&rc=comment_paste

Yes, she's still on the ticket. Anti-Sarah Palin Petitions:

http://pol.moveon.org/demanddebate/?r_by=14040-10308157-MOiDILx&rc=comment_paste

http://womenagainstsarahpalin.blogspot.com/

http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/anti-palin1/index.html

A Weekly Poll on PBS about who you will be voting for based on the issues. Scroll to the lower right of the page. Looks like Obama is kicking some butt over the economy!

http://www.pbs.org/now/index.html

Denounce Ahmadinejad. He was scary before, but his speech to the UN this week was downright horrifying. Do something about it right here!

http://www.wiesenthal.com/siteapps/advocacy/ActionItem.aspx?c=fwLYKnN8LzH&b=4547233&msource=Ban08&auid=4051864

Remember chads? Want to visit Florida? Get involved in the Great Schlep.

Or if none of these motivate you to action, how about this brilliant, yet fiendish idea:

Support Planned Parenthood in Sarah Palin’s name! Find out how here.

Now don’t you feel better having done all of that? I sure do.

Kathy B.

Monday, September 22, 2008

LADIES, LADIES, LADIES…

September 22, 2008

Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss


I had planned to write about God and Lipstick tonight, but I just read an article on Politico.com that says that McCain is closing a huge gap with women and I feel I must write about it. It appears that John McCain’s choosing of Sarah Palin as his running mate has women thinking that he has “a better understanding of women and what is important to them” than Barack Obama. Yes, you read that correctly.


But take a minute to go back and read it again.


Take your time, I know it is a little hard to swallow.


The mind definitely reels.


How can this be true? Have the women of America been learning about Sarah Palin? Are they reading the newspaper reports or watching the television broadcasts about the type of campaign the Republicans are running? Do they understand that "Country First: Reform*Prosperity*Peace" actually translates into "White House at All Costs: Regression*Depression*Conflict"?


Apparently the women of America are not keeping up with this blog site, because according to a poll conducted for Lifetime TV September 11-15, McCain and Obama are virtually tied 44-42%. You can read it all for yourself here at Politico.com


There is some good news in the poll. Women do seem to understand that, “It is the economy” and that Obama/Biden will “help middle class families the most.” That’s refreshing, but we are not gaining back the lost ground fast enough. We must get to work and get to work quickly.


Look, this is no more difficult than organizing the Girl Scout Cookie Sales for the troop, no more complicated than arranging the school bake sale and not nearly as complex as those Halloween costumes you sewed a few years ago. This is definitely not brain surgery and I should know because I have had brain surgery!


All that is required of you is that you visit the Barack Obama website and sign up to volunteer. Here is the link: Volunteer. You will be contacted. Or you can call your local Barack Obama office (which will be listed on the website) and find out what you can do to help. Just fill in that form or make that call. It really isn’t difficult. I promise you’ll feel great having done it.


Let me know how it works out. I'll be sure to write about my experiences.


Kathy B.

Saturday, September 20, 2008

A MUST READ

September 20, 2008

This will be quick. I just discovered a website - DailySource.org and you have to check it out, read it over and then tell everyone you know about it. They have a special page completely dedicated to news about Sarah Palin.
On it you will find "In-depth research, videos, audio clips, excerpts and links to hundreds of articles...The level of research is unparalled, and the page is updated regularly."

Are you still here? You should be there...come back here later...

Thanks for reading,

Kathy B.

ONE BILLION DOLLARS

September 19, 2008

If You’re Not Outraged, You’re Not Paying Attention – bumper sticker

According to OpenSecrets.org “For the first time ever in U.S. history, the candidates for President have raised more than $1 billion.” ONE BILLION DOLLARS! $1,000,000,000.00. $1000 Million Dollars. That sure sounds like a lot of money…how much is it you might ask? Well, I went to About.com to get some help with putting that number into some perspective:

  • A million dollars ago was five (5) seconds ago at the U.S. Treasury.
    A billion dollars ago was late yesterday afternoon at the U.S. Treasury.
  • If we wanted to pay down a billion dollars of the US debt, (which as of this writing is $9,666,440,318,030.02 - that’s 9 trillion, 6 hundred 66 billion, 4hundred 40 million, 3 hundred 18 thousand 30 dollars and two cents) paying one dollar a second, it would take 31 years, 259 days, 1 hour, 46 minutes, and 40 seconds. To pay off a trillion dollars of debt, at a dollar a second, would take about 32,000 years.
  • A tightly-packed stack of new $1,000 bills totaling $1 billion would be 63 miles high. In comparison, jet planes fly at 30,000 - 40,000 feet (5.7 - 7.7 miles high).
  • About a billion minutes ago, the Roman Empire was in full swing. (One billion minutes is about 1,900 years.)
  • About a billion hours ago, we were living in the Stone Age. (One billion hours is about 114,000 years.)
  • About a billion months ago, dinosaurs walked the earth. (One billion months is about 82 million years.)
  • A billion inches is 15,783 miles, more than halfway around the earth (circumference). The earth is about 8,000 miles wide (diameter), and the sun is about 800,000 miles wide, not quite a million.

Now that that’s clear-er…the candidates for President have raised $1 Billion dollars which they "NEED" to use to finance their Presidential campaigns. $1 Billion dollars to get elected for President. $1 Billion dollars spent on campaign teams, field offices and data collectors, survey results, polls and focus groups, TV, radio and newspaper ads, Billboards, posters and mailings. $1 Billion dollars spent on NOTHING really important at a time when people are losing their homes and their jobs due to the economic crisis, communities are being destroyed because of weather catastrophes, individuals cannot afford gas for their cars or food on their tables and parents cannot get loans to send their children to college. That is just in the United States. What about the troubles in the rest of the world, where children are starving, unclothed and uneducated…WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE!

Obama says, “We are a better country than this.” Well I damn well think we should be and I damn well think our Presidential candidates should be our role models for being better than this. $1 Billion dollars to put a person into the White House. Ridiculous! There has got to be a better and far less expensive way to elect someone for President.

Whew! I just had to get that off my chest. Thanks for reading. Moving on...

Kathy B.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

THROW ASIDE THE CURTAIN



September 18, 2008

“Pay no attention to that man behind the curtain.”
~from the Wizard of Oz movie

So much is being thrown at us every day – every minute of every day – on the internet, radio, television, emails, magazine articles, newspaper stories and opinion pages. As I observe America rapidly sinking into the gutter - the Stock Market plunging, the National Debt mounting, Gas Prices bouncing, food prices growing, global warming causing one catastrophic storm after another – I watch and wait for the next big news story, and I study our Presidential candidates. I am hoping they will put it all into some kind of perspective for me. I am looking to them for guidance, for vision, for a plan that will lead us away from some unknown disaster. Instead, they seem busy trying to define each other in some way – usually negative – for me. As if I am not intelligent enough to see and understand for myself, who or what they stand for and capable of making my own decision.

As I see it, at this moment every single one of the candidates is wearing some kind of mask. Either they have donned it themselves or the other party has thrown it on them. Our job, the job of the American electorate, is to lift those masks and try to find the real person who is under there. The person who is going to actual be setting the vision, making the decisions and running this country as President of the United States for the next four years. Just like Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz, we must ignore the warnings and fling back the curtain to reveal the human being controlling all the smoke and mirrors – the person under that mask.

I am finding that discovering the truth is the best way to educate myself regarding the candidates. The following websites have been extremely informative. I encourage you to educate yourself by visiting them:

  • The Fact Checker: maintained by the Washington Post as a “truth squad” for the 2008 election.
  • Factcheck.org: An excellent site to find out whether or not that ad you just saw was accurate or not.
  • Politifact.com: An amazing site with wonderful graphics illustrating whether the claims and counterclaims from both sides are true or false and just how much so.
  • OpenSecrets.org: Everything you ever wanted to know about campaign finances but were afraid to ask. Did you know that the candidates in this election have raised over $1 Billion dollars!?
  • OntheIssues.org: Just exactly how did those candidates vote on all of those issues? Find out here.
  • RealClearPolitics.com: A collection of the weeks best commentary and more.

If all of this doesn’t make you an enlightened voter, I’m not sure what will. Please, let me know if there are other websites, blogs or information out there that I should include on this site. Thanks for reading.

Kathy B.

Monday, September 15, 2008

SARAH PALIN - EVERYMAN

September 15, 2008

I read an interesting article in The Economist this week. It was entitled, “The Triumph of Feminism” and in it the author makes a case that “Mrs. Palin…represents the fulfillment of the feminist dream.” While outraged by this statement, I did really stop and think about it. Could the author be right? Does Sarah Palin and all she stands for signal the end of the feminist cause. After careful consideration, the answer is clearly, “Yes…and No.”

If achieving the feminist ideal means that women should be EXACTLY like men in all ways, then perhaps the answer is yes. Sarah Palin certainly seems to fit the bill. Consider the facts:

  • She accepted a high-level job with little if any consideration for the effect it would have on her spouse or children.
  • She is a lifetime member of the National Rifle Association who enjoys hunting, fishing and snowmobiling.
  • She talks about “God’s will” as if she has a direct pipeline to the Source of the Universe – the Alaska pipeline is “God’s will,” the Iraq War is “God’s will” and so on.
  • She apparently makes people want to sit down and have a beer with her.

If on the other hand, achieving the feminist ideal means that the most qualified WOMAN would succeed to the highest office in the land, then the answer is no. In this case, there were more qualified women (i.e. Hillary Clinton, Olympia Snowe, Susan Collins, Elizabeth Dole Kay Bailey Hutchison to name a few all but one of whom McCain could have picked), but just like back in high school the popular boy overlooked them for someone who was:

  • Younger
  • Prettier – She was after all a runner up for Miss Alaska
  • Not quite as smart
  • Friendlier – She was after all Miss Congeniality in the Miss Alaska Pageant.

If men are from Mars and women are from Venus, I am a bit unclear as to which planet Sarah Palin has come from. I know I am risking the wrath of men and women by pointing all of these things out. But truth is truth. Mourning the defeat of Hillary was difficult enough, following that with the circus that has become the candidacy of Sarah Palin is almost too much to bear.

When exactly do we begin the election process? When do we address the real issues facing this country? Our economy is going into the toilet. The war in Iraq will have us bankrupt if we do not have a plan in place quickly to get out of that country as soon as possible. While that is happening, the Taliban is taking over Afghanistan. Global warming is destroying our coastal cities. I for one would like to hear Obama and McCain, Biden and Palin discussing those issues instead of lipstick, Vietnam-era smears and sex-ed for pre-schoolers.

Thanks for reading,

Kathy B.

Friday, September 12, 2008

SHE DIDN'T BLINK!?

September 12, 2008

“ I -- I answered him yes because I have the confidence in that readiness and knowing that you can't blink, you have to be wired in a way of being so committed to the mission, the mission that we're on, reform of this country and victory in the war, you can't blink.

So I didn't blink then even when asked to run as his running mate.”

Sarah Palin in an interview with Charles Gibson on ABC News 9/11/2008

Let me get this straight. You are married. You are the mother of five children. One of those children is an unmarried, pregnant teenager, another is a 4-month-old baby with Down’s Syndrome. You have just been offered the job of Republican Candidate for Vice President of the United States of America. And YOU DON”T BLINK! YOU SAY YES! Just like that!

Forgive me if I offend anyone here, but if a man did that I would say, “The Hell with him!” We are not talking about a part-time job at the local fast food restaurant, which has its own issues of time management. We are talking about running for Vice President of the United States of America. I do believe Mr. Palin and the kids deserved at least a heads up: “Hey, I’ve been offered this great job and this is what it is going to mean for all of you. Let’s discuss this for a few minutes before I give them my answer.”

I guess what troubles me about “you can’t blink” is that everyone needs the counsel of others and in my experience the higher up you go, the more counsel you need. To think that the Vice President or President of our country “can’t blink” tells me that s/he wouldn’t hesitate before pulling the trigger, pressing the button or making the order to wreak God knows what havoc on the world. I would feel a lot more comfortable knowing my elected officials have the common sense to recognize that they may not understand everything about every situation in which they find themselves. I would like them to blink, breathe and invite some reasoned and intelligent minds in to discuss the state of affairs before running off and making a decision. That is what I expect from my life’s partner before he makes any major decisions. That is what he expects from me. Sometimes it really isn’t all about you, Sarah Palin.

“You can’t blink.” That’s one more bone for the pile,

Kathy B.

Thursday, September 11, 2008

SLEIGHT-OF-HAND

September 11, 2008

“We have real problems in this country right now, and the American people are looking to us for answers, not distractions, not diversions, not manipulations." Barack Obama


As part of my self-education regarding the political process, and what is happening with the candidates during this election season, I have been doing a lot of reading. Yesterday I focused on the candidates’ websites and, just as when I read the parties’ Political Platforms there were some interesting differences. One in particular glared out at me.

The Obama/Biden website has an entire section entitled “Fight the Smears/Spread the Truth.” When I enter it, I read all “those stories” I have been receiving in my inbox. “Obama is a Muslim,” “Obama won’t say the Pledge of Allegiance,” you know the ones. OhmyGod…Just like the “Dear Madam: I am writing to inform you that your help is required for my $10 million inheritance to leave Botswana…” email, here they all were, the outright lies, the ridiculous innuendos. Accompanying each of these ludicrous stories was THE TRUTH - where the story, rumor, implication came from, who started it, who spread it and who funded it and most importantly what I could do to spread THE TRUTH to everyone I know. So much money, such a huge endeavor to tell lies. So much effort, so much energy expended to erase them.

I move on to the McCain/ Palin website. Surely, there must be a similar area on this site addressing these same types of stories. I looked everywhere and found nothing. The only thing featured yesterday on the McCain/Palin site is the “Lipstick Ad.” Have you seen it? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w613nayrYwo

Here is the full account of what Senator Obama said: “John McCain says he’s about change too. I guess his whole angle is, ‘Watch out George Bush – except for Economic Policy, Health Care Policy, Tax Policy, Education Policy, Foreign Policy and Karl Rove Style Politics – we’re really going to shake up Washington.’ That’s not change. That’s calling the same thing something different. You can put lipstick on a pig…it’s still a pig. You can wrap up an old fish in a piece of paper and call it change. It’s still gonna stink after 8 years. We’ve had enough.”

Personally, I think the Republicans are just trying to distract us from the real issues - $4 a gallon gasoline, the war in Iraq, the national deficit, the mortgage crisis, the failing dollar, rising food costs, violence, unemployment, all the things that keep us awake at night.

It’s as if the Republicans are magicians performing some kind of sleight-of-hand with the American people. They are using any number of the magician’s techniques - manipulation, misdirection, deceit to name a few – to lead us away from the important matters – the issues that affect our lives on a daily basis, the fact that we need a real change in this country. In this way, they will fool us into believing that their candidate is the better leader and their platform, the better roadmap.

We no longer have the luxury of falling for their tricks. We must be educated and aware of what they are doing. We must take matters into our own hands and tell the Republicans, “Enough is enough! We are through with a Republican Administration, with this war, with this economy. We want change and we want it now. ” THROW BACK THE BONE!

Kathy B.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Making a Difference

September 10, 2008

It certainly appears that people are heating up over the political situation. One would think that Sarah Palin was the Republican candidate for President of the United States rather than Senator John McCain. My inbox fills daily with emails expressing concern over the latest discovery about Governor Palin, her comings and goings and the most recent speculation regarding the Republican’s chances of winning the election in November. Fear and anxiety are running rampant through my social network.

The good news is that people are taking action. Just as I began writing my blog – a wonderful therapeutic tool – others have done the same thing. Check out the following, if you haven’t already received the links in your inboxes:

http://womenagainstsarahpalin.blogspot.com/ - a fantastic blog where you can read the outrageous responses of thousands of women to Sarah Palin’s nomination.

http://womenagainstsarahpalin.org/ - A website/blog that is trying to give factual information about Sarah Palin as well as a place for readers to discuss their feelings.

http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/NO-Sarah-Palin - a petition you can sign to send to Senator McCain telling him why you think that Sarah Palin is the wrong choice for his Vice President.

And please don’t forget to tell your family and friends about my blog, http://throwbackthebone.blogspot.com/, where you and they can also comment about the news of the day and also find articles of interest and ways to get active in the election. As John F. Kennedy said, “One person can make a difference and every person should try.”

I’m trying in my own way. I would love to hear about your ideas.

Kathy B.

Monday, September 8, 2008

To Vote or Not to Vote? Is That Really a Question?

September 8, 2008

I hear some individuals are planning to sit out the November 4 election this year. They say Hillary Clinton is not on the ballot and neither Obama nor McCain is appealing, so they have no reason to vote. They say they do not want to take responsibility for electing either Obama or McCain. They say the state they live in is going to go to Obama or McCain so what difference does their one vote make anyway. They say…any number of things to excuse the fact that they are giving up a fundamental human right, one that citizens of countries the world over (including ours) have fought and died over.

Perhaps I am old enough to look back on elections past with some insight. Maybe it’s living in the present with the increasingly difficult news of war, recession, global warming and other serious issues slapping me in the face everyday. Or possibly it’s because I look to the future with anticipation that our country can live up to the ideals upon which it was founded. Whatever it is, I believe we are standing at a crossroads and each of us has the obligation to make the choice as to the direction we want America to go.

On one hand, we can ride out the chaotic storm we are currently sitting in the midst of and hope for the best. We can choose the candidate with a platform that, for example, calls not for ENDING the Iraq war but for WINNING that war. We can vote for the candidate with a platform that considers discrimination immoral EXCEPT in the case of sexual orientation, and calls for a constitutional amendment that fully protects marriage as a union of a man and a woman. We can support the candidate who does not support “equal pay for equal work” by women. (Read the Republican Platform.)

On the other hand, we can vote for the candidate who offers us change. We can choose the candidate with a platform that calls for bringing “the war in Iraq to a responsible end.” We can vote for the candidate with the platform that fights to end discrimination of any kind and that vows to “Support the full inclusion of all families, including same-sex couples, in the life of our nation…”We can support the candidate with the platform that supports a woman’s right to choose and “equal pay for equal work.” (Read the Democratic Platform.)

It is not only the party platforms nor whether we like the candidates themselves that should determine whether we vote or not. Other factors require our consideration. The next President of the United States will more than likely be nominating 1-3 new justices to the Supreme Court in the coming 4 years. Think long and hard about the recent Supreme Court decisions that have been handed down. Have you liked the way the justices have decided? Here are some recent cases in case you have forgotten. Your vote for President could make a difference in how future Supreme Court cases are decided.

Another reason to vote is you will the opportunity to elect State Representatives and Senators from your party of choice. Providing the new President with a majority in the Senate and House of Representatives will enable the work of the country to proceed at a much faster clip. A definite advantage.

Are you still thinking about staying home on Election Day?

Kathy B.

Sunday, September 7, 2008

THE TIPPING POINT, YOU ASK?

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Very shortly after I created my website (which has now become this blog) and sent it to my friends, a Republican friend of mine emailed me with this:

"I'm interested in what, exactly, the tipping point was for you. Is it the idea that women shouldn't be conservative? Must the shattering of the 'glass ceiling' be done only by a registered Democrat? If so, it obviously isn't a womens' issue at all, but a political one."

Of course, anyone who knows me including my Republican friend, knows my immediate reaction was to begin to get a bit heated. But then I stopped and thought about it. This is a fair and legitimate question, deserving of a thoughtful answer. Was there a Tipping Point? Yes, I am certain that there was, but it came after a long a frustrating process.

I think you may have to be a woman in your fifties or older to really understand. Perhaps if I share a personal story with you it will become clearer.

Go back with me to the early 1980s. Picture yourself as the only woman in a room full of men. You are a young woman in your 20s and the men are all older than you. They are your colleagues - your peers. You are meeting them for the first time at a staff meeting. Before your boss arrives, they greet you warmly and then say, "You should know, the boss hates women. He is going to make your life miserable." It is clear in the days following that meeting that they are right. Your boss is an old-timer with the company and he is not happy at having a young, up-and-coming female foisted on him. What would you do in that situation?

What I did was ask my boss to come to my office for a meeting. I confronted him with the problem directly by stating, "I understand you have a problem with women. Well, there is not much I can do about the fact that I am one. But I can tell you that I will do a better job than any of my colleagues and that is all you should care about." In the end, I received his highest recommendation.

HOWEVER, imagine that in spite of all that, working your hardest, managing through that system, giving it your all, achieving the highest rank in the district, you still standby and watch as a newer, younger MALE comes into the organization and takes the promotion over you. Imagine that happens not once, but three times. Of course there is always a reason, a very good reason...

Flash forward to 2008, Hillary Clinton is running for President of the United States. The first truly viable female presidential candidate we have seen. Eighteen Million people support her. 1800+ delegates line up behind her at the Democratic National Convention. So close, so very close. But wait...there is a younger, handsomer, young MALE candidate. Well, we've seen it before. We've lived it before.

Yes, we are disappointed. And hurt. And angry. Excuse us for having emotions. Oh, but John McCain is there. He certainly is. With his advertisements using Hillary supporters to try to woo us to his side.

Unfortunately, he did not count on Hillary Clinton taking the High Road. He did not figure that at the Democratic National Convention, Hillary would ask her supporters to think hard about why we had supported her. He did not count on Hillary actually having the courage to herself move that Barack Obama be selected as the Democratic Party's nominee by Acclimation. He did not count on Hillary's asking us to support Obama in the name of party unity and then so admirably modelling that unity herself.

I understand that Senator McCain ran ads alluding to why Hillary Clinton was "passed over" for the Vice Presidential slot in Obama's campaign. Again, trying to build up the flames of our anger and resentment. I guess it must not have been working, however, because the best was yet to come with the announcement on Sunday, August 30, 2008, that Senator McCain had chosen Sarah Palin, a virtual political unknown to be his running mate. As if to say, "I know what you want. You want a woman to actually be on the ticket! It doesn't matter if she is qualified or not. It doesn't matter if she supports women's issues or not. As long as she is a woman, I'm sure you will all coming running to me in droves."

A Tipping Point? I guess my answer would have to be, yes, there was a Tipping Point and Sarah Palin is that Tipping Point. To answer your specific questions: Does the glass ceiling have to be shattered by a registered Democrat or the woman shouldn't be conservative? No, those aren't the issues. But for me, as a woman, I would like the woman who shatters that glass ceiling to represent me in a little better way than Sarah Plain seems to be representing me. For example:
  • A woman who believes that abortions should be banned EVEN IN THE CASE OF RAPE AND INCEST is not someone who represents me even a little.
  • A woman who, as mayor of a small town, wants librarians to ban books from the local library is not someone who represents me even a little.
  • A woman who gives birth to a Down-Syndrome child and then chooses to leave that 4-month-old special needs child behind while she runs for Vice President of the United States is not someone who represents me even a little.
  • A woman who completely disparages all of the community organizers I know - the people who organize and run the battered women's shelters, the homeless shelters, the soup kitchens and many other organizations that are necessary to take care of the mess left to us by the Bush Administration is not someone who represents me even a little.
  • A woman who attends a church that supports Jews for Jesus evangelicals and their thinking about God's punishment on the Jews is not someone who represents me even a little.

I could go on, but you see my point. I think Senator McCain could have chosen a better and more qualified woman for this position if he had looked for one. A woman, though conservative, who could have represented me even a little and who I may have been persuaded to support. However, Gloria Steinem and I agree, Governor Palin is little more than a younger version of Phyllis Schlafly. I believe that even conservative Republican women have come a little farther than that by now.

So my friend, there is your answer. It is both a woman's issue and a political one. I am sure our discussion has only just begun. I appreciate your making me think about this though. I hope you think about it too.

Kathy B.

CHEWING ON THE BONE

Saturday, August 30, 2008


My husband and I went on a very long walk. As my energy was clearly flagging, my spouse turned to me and asked if I wanted him to come back for me in the car. I immediately responded, "No! I'll be fine. I'm chewing on the bone John McCain threw me yesterday."

That is how I view Senator McCain's selection of Governor Sarah Palin as his running mate for the Vice Presidential slot. A bone. Here, my friends. You couldn't have a woman Presidential candidate to vote for, so I will give you a woman Vice Presidential Candidate. No matter that she is the polar (forgive the pun) opposite of Senator Hillary Clinton:

  • Lacking in experience
  • Anti-abortion - Even in the case of Incest & Rape!
  • A Lifetime Member of the National Rifle Association
  • An Evangelical Christian, who supports teaching Creationism in public schools
  • An anti-environmentalist who does not believe humans have caused global warming

Need I go on? But she is a woman...Yes, she and Hillary do have that in common. But that is simply not enough.

Senator McCain, you apparently don't get it. It is not about having a woman somewhere on the ticket. It is about having the right woman in the TOP SPOT on the ticket. The goal was to put a woman in the WHITE House not the BLAIR House. Our hope was not to put 18 million cracks in that glass ceiling but to shatter it.

As Ellen Goodman, columnist for the Boston Globe wrote recently, there has been " a race between two people to open the door of history. A door that could only admit one at a time." I accept that during the 2008 election, history will be made by a Black-American rather than a woman.

Senator McCain, nice try, however this is one former Hillary supporter-now Obama supporter who will wait for the right time and the right woman. Thanks for thinking of me, but I am throwing your bone right back at you and since wrapping up a real dog bone and sending it to you in the mail seems somewhat impolite, I decided to email this picture of a dog bone to you at info@johnmccain.com.

I am also making a donation to the Barack Obama Campaign in your honor, because only a Democratic team in the White House will enable women to finally achieve the dreams we came so close to this year.

Rather than be upset and outraged by what I consider a political ploy on your part, I am turning to Hillary and Barack for my inspiration. It is not about Hillary and it is not about Barack, it is about me and I do not intend to sit idly by and watch political games be played with my emotions. Thus this website. Next stop, I volunteer my time to get Barack Obama elected.

So thanks again Senator McCain, not for the bone, which I really did not appreciate, but for the kick it gave me to get re involved in this election. I needed that.

Sincerely,

Kathy B.